Back to school allergy checklist

To take with us on Day One: 

1.  Labelled medicine bottle and dropper - I'll hand this over to teacher in front of The Allergic One and let him know that she has it if he needs it 
2.  Copy of NHS Emergency Management Plan
3.  Photo of The Allergic One for the Dining Hall team

Anxious mother worries: 

1.  Should I have bought a Medical Alert wristband?  
2.  Is it inevitable that he'll have a reaction ... or two?  
3.  Do I need to be making like-for-like desserts so he won't feel left out?  (The Dining Hall reckon they can accommodate his allergies for the main meal but not for the puds).  
4.  Will he feel left out anyway?  

Aaaaah!